Redefining Wellness, One Story at a Time

This space is a personal journey through illness, healing, and the unexpected beauty found in life’s most vulnerable moments. Through heartfelt stories, honest reflections, and real experiences from the bedside, I explore what it truly means to be well — physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Whether you’re facing a diagnosis, supporting a loved one, or simply searching for connection and understanding, these stories offer comfort, perspective, and hope. Wellness isn’t just a destination — it’s the quiet strength we find along the way.

The Art of Being ILL

Im a seasoned 40 year bedside nurse who created The Art of Being ILL out of a fire to explain a very broken often uncaring health care system.  But there is so much more to me than just being a nurse. 

I grew up in the 70’s without technology and a sense of freedom as a kid that doesn’t exist anymore.  I lived on the Big Island of Hawaii in a shack in an undeveloped area of forest in a shack without running water or electricity for about a year.  Exploring an amazing world that no longer exists.

I came home got married ,started nursing had a son and went about my life.  I then got divorced and have spent the last 30 years becoming me.

I did the California Aids ride twice.  A 500 mile one week bike ride to raise money for aids support and awareness.

I ran 9 half marathons, a full one seemed too much .

I packed up my life a few years ago bought a 30 foot RV and took off to travel the US by myself, towing my car, to see this amazing country for a year.

I spent 7 years living in that RV as a traveling nurse.

I am a mother, a grandmother and an independent often outspoken woman.

I like to garden, work with wood and read.  I love my little house and my life.  I have spent the last 30 years trying to find me and I think I have.   

This blog is truly a passion project born out of years of experience. I hope you can see that. 

Thanks for being here, looking into who I am and where – The a

Art of Being ILL comes from. 

The Patient Power Starter Kit

This Starter Kit brings together four powerful reflections from my blog-each one paired with a practical checklist or prompt to help you stay grounded, informed, and empowered as a patient or caregiver.

Whether you read one page or all of them, you’ll find real tools, honest perspective, and a steady voice to walk beside you.

07 - Patient Power

How to reclaim your voice, your calm, and your confidence-even in a hospital gown.

02- Listen to Your Body

Your body knows. Here’s how to start listening-and what to do with what it says.

03 - Just Not Knowing

When there are no clear answers, this page helps you find steadiness in the unknown.

04 - Power as a Nurse

A look from my side of the bedside-what I’ve seen, and what every patient should know.

Art Of Being Ill
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