End-of-Life Planning Checklist
Your voice. Your values. Your peace of mind.
Medical Directives & Care Planning
- Create a DNR (Do Not Resuscitate Order)
▸ Signed by your physician and witnessed (not by a family member)
▸ Accessible in your home, medical record, and/or emergency file - Complete an Advance Directive / Living Will
▸ Details your wishes about life-sustaining treatments (ventilators, feeding tubes, etc.) - Assign a Healthcare Proxy or Power of Attorney
▸ A trusted person who can make decisions if you’re unable to - Document Preferences for Palliative or Hospice Care
▸ Where and how you want to be cared for near the end of life - Discuss Wishes with Your Primary Doctor
▸ Ensure your medical team understands and supports your choices
Family Conversations
- Have Honest Discussions with Loved Ones
▸ Share your end-of-life values and what matters most to you
▸ Avoid surprises and reduce future conflict - Include Family in Healthcare Planning When Possible
▸ Helps build clarity and emotional readiness - Explain the Purpose of a DNR to Avoid Misunderstanding
▸ Emphasize it’s not about “giving up,” but about preserving dignity and control
Legal & Logistical Essentials
- Create or Update Your Will or Estate Plan
▸ Assign executors, outline assets, and express final wishes - Include Medical Preferences in Your Estate Plan
▸ Integrate your DNR, Advance Directive, and Healthcare Proxy - Store Documents in an Accessible Location
▸ Let family know where to find everything (consider a medical file folder) - Review Documents Annually
▸ Update as your health, beliefs, or circumstances change
Emotional & Personal Reflection
- Clarify What Quality of Life Means to You
▸ Consider what makes life meaningful to you—autonomy, mobility, connection - Write a Personal Letter or Legacy Message (Optional but powerful)
▸ A way to leave words of love, comfort, or guidance for your family - Consider Grief Support or End-of-Life Counseling for You and Loved Ones
▸ Especially helpful during chronic illness or hospice transitions