End-of-Life Planning Checklist

Your voice. Your values. Your peace of mind.

Medical Directives & Care Planning

  • Create a DNR (Do Not Resuscitate Order)
    Signed by your physician and witnessed (not by a family member)
    Accessible in your home, medical record, and/or emergency file
  • Complete an Advance Directive / Living Will
    Details your wishes about life-sustaining treatments (ventilators, feeding tubes, etc.)
  • Assign a Healthcare Proxy or Power of Attorney
    A trusted person who can make decisions if you’re unable to
  • Document Preferences for Palliative or Hospice Care
    Where and how you want to be cared for near the end of life
  • Discuss Wishes with Your Primary Doctor
    Ensure your medical team understands and supports your choices

 

Family Conversations

  • Have Honest Discussions with Loved Ones
    Share your end-of-life values and what matters most to you
    Avoid surprises and reduce future conflict
  • Include Family in Healthcare Planning When Possible
    Helps build clarity and emotional readiness
  • Explain the Purpose of a DNR to Avoid Misunderstanding
    Emphasize it’s not about “giving up,” but about preserving dignity and control

 

Legal & Logistical Essentials

  • Create or Update Your Will or Estate Plan
    Assign executors, outline assets, and express final wishes
  • Include Medical Preferences in Your Estate Plan
    Integrate your DNR, Advance Directive, and Healthcare Proxy
  • Store Documents in an Accessible Location
    Let family know where to find everything (consider a medical file folder)
  • Review Documents Annually
    Update as your health, beliefs, or circumstances change

 

Emotional & Personal Reflection

  • Clarify What Quality of Life Means to You
    Consider what makes life meaningful to you—autonomy, mobility, connection
  • Write a Personal Letter or Legacy Message (Optional but powerful)
    A way to leave words of love, comfort, or guidance for your family
  • Consider Grief Support or End-of-Life Counseling for You and Loved Ones
    Especially helpful during chronic illness or hospice transitions

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